Heard her on the phone talking how she is so out of practice and that she has been with me since she was 19. I assume she was talking to her friend about the party. This is the first that I have heard this stuff out of her mouth.
Vise, I don't think she was referring to the party as being out of practice. .
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!