Well folks, life trundles along. We are now 20 months since PA began and 16 months since BD. OW still in the picture far as I know. D process moving along. House on the market and some possible interest. Very little contact with H. Not seen him for a year or spoken to him for many months. I hardly initiate, but what contact we have by email is pleasant.
Looks like I secured a permanent contract now, and my landlord will give me first refusal on this flat if I want to buy it. I have many new things in my life, which I enjoy and have come a long way since BD. I'm attending a divorce recovery workshop at the moment, which is good. I feel I have lost my fear of D now and will keep moving forward - hopefully towards peace and happiness in whichever way.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus