Thanks Mleigh, it's good to know you feel that way too, and I think you are right about the gift of time. It's not the best outcome if a MLCer decides to return when we are still hopelessly codependent and desperate for them to want back in at any cost. Much better if more time has passed and we are more independent and able to look after ourselves at that point - thanks for the reminder.
Job, sorry about the new thread part....here's a link to my next instalment..
