Originally Posted By: Vanilla


Great shift and healing. Tumbling on tumbling. No disconnect to the higher spirit around you. Great abundance comes with connection toon to self. Deepak Choprange has seven laws to spirit. Onice connection is made to the National Grid of higher power there is glow.



V,

Above is a perfect example of goodly gook. The "National Grid of higher Power" and "great abundance comes with connection to self". It's just words on a screen to us "lower spirits". You also even threw in a "Dobson letter" reference which has nothing to do with Divorce Busting - the relevant author on this discussion forum.

I am very sorry your husband was abusive.

I am not.

What I am is much more pragmatic.

I also find what I classify as high brow postings passive aggressive and not "gentle" at all.

I have seen many (usually male BH's like Maahty) get caught up running in circles trying to figure out what mystical "higher spirit" long posts like yours mean and exactly what they are supposed to do with it. I merely expressed the viewpoint to Mahhty that I thought writing himself a "love letter" was waste of time and he should disregard the non-DB exercise and, instead, go kayaking. That was and is still my advice to Mahhty. If you think he should disregard my post...then share your opinion of it. Mahhty can take what he wants and leave the rest. Characterizing me, based upon my opinion, as abusive is just your defensiveness speaking or, should I say, your inner higher self tumbling upon tumbling.

I was serious when I said "no offense". Don't take any........as I mean only to help Mahhty.....just like you. Between my pragmatism and your "higher spirit" combined we're are sure to hit the right spot. In fact, Jguy is a betrayed husband that I ascertained this afternoon is a guy I can't help at all because he posted a link to a mysticism article about love, eros and whatever. He seems like a nice enough guy but I'm not going to ever connect with him. I am not being sarcastic when I say he'd likely find your posts, um, elucidating.


The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!