You have to do what is in yours and your kids best interest. Would you consider letting him know you filed? I do know hurt me tremendously to find out H filed for divorce and didn't tell me. Being served out of the blue hurt so badly. Just a thought, Julie. I'm proud of you for finally standing up for yourself and your children.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15