I so appreciate you both responding. Part of my hesitation in pushing the money issue is that I know he doesn't have it. I haven't pushed it because I have no faith that he'll give me the money even if I do ask for what I deserve. It feels like starting a fight when I know the outcome.
Should I ask him for what the CS worksheet says I am owed? What do I do when he says no? Get a lawyer and legally force him if I can?
The OW is no longer talking to me so it will be easy for me stop talking to her.