Hi starting a new thread, but wanted to just give quick background and links..
Husband and I lost money on a home and moved our family (twin boys) into my families home with the hope of saving money. Health issues, work stresses, compounded and my husband moved out 4 months ago. He initially said he wanted space. It is then that I joined these boards with some hope. But as the weeks and months went on, we communicated less and less. A few weeks ago he said he does not want work on our marriage. He feels like we are too incompatible and told me that he could not survive in our marriage. We had tried marriage counseling but it was too late. I went back and looked up some old texts and he really was completely checked out.
Now I just feel confused and hopeless. Very angry and regretful too.