I know it is not what is owed. I did the CS worksheet for my state so I have a good idea of what he'd have to pay me in support and what he is giving me is not even close.
I've gone as dark as I can with children in the last three weeks. I finally spoke to the OW at the end of October and discovered that he had been lying to both of us since May. I've been dark since then - only discussing pick ups and drop offs. We chat pleasantly when together for kid things but nothing else. What more can I do now? I've kept in contact with OW up until last week. Over the weekend I was told that her car is back at his house and now she hasn't returned my most recent text. That's all the confirmation I need that they are back on. Apparently she has no back bone either.
I know I shouldn't care about any of this but I do - alot. This has to run its course right? It has nothing to do with me right? Work on only me and my girls, right?
