Rai, I think these are bullying tactics. Please rely on your own L to offer support and act in the best interests of you and the kids. Don't be emotionally blackmailed by some L with these heavy handed tactics. Do you know what kind of separation arrangements are likely to be deemed fair?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus