Rai, I think these are bullying tactics. Please rely on your own L to offer support and act in the best interests of you and the kids. Don't be emotionally blackmailed by some L with these heavy handed tactics. Do you know what kind of separation arrangements are likely to be deemed fair?


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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus