I didn't mean to imply it was your fault or responsibility, just that I can somewhat relate to the feeling. I never felt like I could live up to my husband, so I barely even tried and it's not that he ever put any expectations on me. I just felt like he set the bar high. Same with you going from stay at home mom to Dr Mona.

Your S sounds like a normal healthy 12 year old boy.

Hope you get some sleep tonight.