I was very suspicious too, why ask? Because this is new territory for her, the most she has gone out in the past is to the gay neighbor to drink wine. And she asked to do that too.
I am not going to respond, If I do then its like giving her permission to party. Maybe that's how she rationalizes it, I said it was ok for her to go out, and what else she does when she is out.
She is on the prowl, she is needing touch, attention, a hug, interaction. How do I know thins because I have the same needs, but its been longer for me because she had some of her need met with her EA.
My story has gotten to the part where I get to watch her dress up to go out to look for OM. I read about it months ago on other threads , now its my turn for the pain.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
