please dont take this wrong, I really am trying to look objectively at how I respond in my sitch, so tell me what I am doing that is full blown pursuit, and how am I enabling? by doing the vehicle legwork? I'm not understanding this and would like to. from my perspective, i am "acting as if", "doing what works" and keeping the pressure off as suggested in the MLC chapter and the Infidelity chapter.
Enlighten me please! (I'm ok with 2x4's, obviously I have an incredibly thick skull!-- or weak glasses or something!)
