Wayward Wife, my addiction, advice needed

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Thanks PigPen!

NMRNG is waiting for me at home to read - just got it yesterday in the mail!
Reading Love and Respect right now - halfway through.

I picked up Boundaries last week on a whim, and my gut was correct - need to read that one, too. Will be ordering DR today as well.

Those I know who had a M end in D, more times than not, have one person in the R that just can't give up on the hurt. My therapist brought up releasing the hurt and pain, and how do do it correctly. Something we'll be working on. My wife has the same things she'll need to do, but I can't fix her - she has to fix herself. I'm SOOOO much more calm at home. Her anger doesn't get to me... much. I strive to be the lighthouse, and a man she longs for, lusts after, and wants to spend the rest of her life with. If she decides that I'm not the one, I will deal with the pain and it'll be tough, but I'll get through it.

The tunnel isn't completely dark now. At least I can put one foot in front of the other, and if I need to jump off the train, I can pick my spot, instead of getting pushed off the caboose.