Just caught up on your thread. Sorry you're in a tough spot my friend. As someone who has also battled with addiction and had addiction play a role in the downfall of his M, I want to commend you for tacking your pornography addiction.
That's never an easy one to admit, nor an easy one to overcome. I've spoken with a lot of men this year who have addiction issues. Some to booze, some to pills, some to sex, and many to porn. It's insidious and definitely ruin your life and any semblance of a relationship.
If you haven't read No More Mr. Nice Guy, I would. Co dependence may not be your exact issue, but most guys with a sexual addiction of any sort (IMO) have elements of it. The indirect communication that you speak of lends to male codependence too.
Keep your faith, you've got some hard work ahead of you but it's going to allow your life to be so much better than anything you've ever experienced.
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