You're right. There would be no benefit. I am not even sure I have a right to be upset about it anymore. I would just be giving him an opportunity to lie to me for the umpteenth time.
I do get a small amount of support from him. It started last month - but it is not enough and not near what he would be required to give me if we D. I am really struggling financially right now. I am trying to minimize the damage in my daughter's lives created by their father and keep things the same for them. I've been able to so far but I have not come up with a long term plan for this.