Gotta get back to work, but I've been thinking, maybe I'm kind of less predictable in being a little "naughtier" if you get my drift....H used to complain about my boring undies (i'm even more blunt in what I say now) so I decided to be just a notch or 2 "hotter" to start out with. Got new undies, lower cut tops, lost some weight (still trying), cut & colored hair, H has never said a word except to make a few comments about undies. But in the last 2 weeks, I've noticed several guys I don't know looking at me, and they weren't bad either. That's different, so H must have to notice. I chuckling here, it's kind of naughty but as I went through the the check out at the grocery store last week, I noticed the guy behind the register was making a very pointed effort to keep his eyes on my face. I thought that was weird (seen that guy a million times) and then as I was pushing the cart out I noticed there was a little more "cleavage" showing than I was aware of....so I'm still laughing. I don't want to look like a tramp, but I don't want to look like a frumpy old lady either. I did get my dress for D's wedding, (4 sizes smaller! yes!) and I think it looks kinda sexy in a sophisticated way... maybe H notices the physical stuff a little. Actually a couple of months ago he commented on the weight loss, so he must. Still gotta be more unpredictable in other ways. I havent responded to his email today......
