Indigo, you actually got me thinking a bit into my reason for paying for as much as I have been so long. The problem I had (internally) was if I took the car back, XF had no transportation to go to and from work. Also S4 swaps would have been 100% on me for the traveling. She honestly doesn't have the means to buy a car... Same with the insurance on the car. Now she's driving it. Do I drop it, then if something happens it is my car on the road without insurance. That was to cover me for letting her have the car. Cell phones, there again, S4 played a big part of that. It was my only way to contact him when he is not with me.

I guess I was in a tough spot and now I am standing up on 2 of the 3 fronts...

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home