Hey,

I picked up kids from school and W was home. MIL is sending over premade casseroles and left overs so W is using that and not cooking.

I am smothering my kids as S4 told me to stop hugging him so much. I think I am over compensating for what the kids have in store for them if D happens.

W is now looking to move out of the city closer to her parents. This is a change from before when she wanted to stay here and close to the kids school and their friends. Just another thinking of herself attitude. But we are far from that point of selling so why is she looking? I don't know if I should be looking.

She has been keeping information from me regarding the mortgage that her parent hold, I have been asking for weeks now and she has excuse after excuses. I have told her I need it to apply for a loan to pay of debt that is in my name, I am trying to get things in order for me to get a place of my own if it comes to that.

I think with the work she was asking me to do I am just going to leave it alone, pick my battles, this is not worth fighting over. If she does the same in the future I will handle it then.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016