Go back and read the 37 rules. Which rule says to Go Dark? There is a big difference in DBing detachment and Going Dark. I believe the only way a person can successfuly go dark is when they are living in separate homes and have no children. (Apparently there are others who believe in going gray, etc. I think that loses the concept of what Going Dark is all about.....but maybe it's just my pet peeve).
Dear Sandi, Would you please elaborate on what you understand about Going Dark vs Going Grey and what works and what does not? I ask this because I have been following gogofo sitch. He has kids and apparently he was able to cut any interaction with his W except when it came to their kids. And apparently he was successful.. I would appreciate to hear your thoughts on this, for my benefit. Thanks
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15
