Yup, reality is starting to set in now. I think what helped me greatly in my situation was that as soon as I was out of the house I told W that I would pay for nothing. I obviously gave money to support my D, but that was it. Could be part of the reason for the relatively short time frame of my ordeal. Stick to the path you're on my friend. She needs to put in the work to get you back at this point, if its still a possibility in your heart.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
