That's how I felt about it indigo. I think the way I reacted and just listened on Saturday got her thinking "boy he doesn't care anymore, he is fine with this". It's nothing but mind reading so see what happens moving forward. If she continues to reach out for unimportant things I will definatly start thinking more that way.

I must admit, that call kinda got me twisted up this morning. Basically I'm overthinking the reason/meaning behind it even though I realize it doesn't matter. I know better, I just have to let it pass and move along.

I will see her tonight for S4 swap. Gonna keep it as short as possible and let her stew on why. Saturday, I will also see her for a bit. Actually meeting to swap S4 and get our cell phone bills split. That may also be playing in her head? Making all this more final. She has to find her own car insurance tomorrow also because I am dropping coverage on her car. Kinda tired of paying for that when she already got the car from me for free...


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home