Hope all OK in the run up to moving.

Keep to your path. You are doing well. Don't be tempted to help or fix the situation your W is facing. You do care but because you care you need to let her face it without you. I think you know this but no harm reminding, as your emotions are likely to be high. You are relatively detached but having to leave your home and all that entails will weigh on you. This is not the end but a new beginning.

One thing I am curious about. What exactly does your W intend to review in six months? It's funny and not funny how her mind is working....


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together