Your feelings are completely normal. You are beginning to detach which means that you are getting back to working on yourself, developing a positive self image. I am impressed that you have lost a stone of weight. Unfortunately I have as well. Probably a stone and a half. Oh well the Dr says I look fine. One man's perspective is to get yourself a new hairdo and maybe a makeover. Learn a new skill or find a new interest that will stimulate your mind. Rouky and I have talked a lot about this. There are financial challenges to these things but sometimes there are things we can do that cost very little or nothing. Keep the pressure on your husband and get in the mode of driving all the boys crazy!
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.