achi, I have to agree with the others, the comment of "you didn't try hard enough" does tend to be their card up their sleeve. You did try, just like the rest of us. While I didn't get the "you didn't try hard enough", what I did get was in the middle of the divorce I instigated after 2.5 years of her living with her affair partner, was her saying "I was hoping we might have worked on our marriage some time down the track". How the heck does she come out with that, especially when we hadn't spoken, seen each other or texted for at least 6 months. Hold your head up high, you did what you felt was the best possible. You tried. That is all that matters.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
