Getting through the storm

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Went to dinner and drinks with my bestie after church. Just got home and off a 20 minute call with STBXH.

I can leave Tuesday night for my trip but I had to give him Sunday night and Monday night in it's place. Yeah, let's talk about being fair. (dripping with sarcasm) (He actually told me that paying me alimony wasn't fair) boy did I drink a STFU smoothie with that one.

The long call was based on the fact that I got an email about Dr. C's opening appointment times for the next collaborative meeting. We agreed in the last meeting that was our last, so I called him to see if something changed that he knew about. He didn't know any different than me but he told me he is meeting his L tomorrow to talk about the house issue. Ummmm there is no house issue, it is in my offer that I get the house.

He said his L told him I didn't want the house so he needed to figure out if he wanted it or if we should sell. (I am sure this is not the conversation that happened but how he interrupted it, but of course it is everyone else's fault that there was a miscommunication). His actual words not mind reading.

I never told my L that I didn't want the house. I believe his L was wanting him to do the research for their counter offer. Anyway, I validated that must be frustrating and confusing but hopefully I was able to give him some information for his meeting tomorrow. I thanked him for telling me about his meeting in advance so that we could discuss it beforehand and prevent any further confusion and I also made my gratitude very known for letting me break up our drive. His response was "yeah".

He wanted to know why if I wanted the house then why hadn't I filed the application to assume the mortgage? I said because I wasn't putting the cart before the horse, his reply "huh?"

Oh geez!