I need more help with dropping the rope. I think I really need to get to the point where I don't care. I feel sometimes like I am being "mean" because being so terse is out of character, sort of like "Frankly Scarlett, I don't give a damn". I would be more, "Scarlett, I don't want to be mean to you, but I'm done". I wonder if Sandi is still following and can chime in. When ignoring the bait and having minimum interaction, when they push your buttons do you smile and walk away or say something to push them back?
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling
I wonder if Sandi is still following and can chime in. When ignoring the bait and having minimum interaction, when they push your buttons do you smile and walk away or say something to push them back?
