Oh... just thought of something else. In my case, part of my strategy was to capture/document what she was saying to me. When she was still in the house, I recorded conversations (check your local laws).

Once she left, I wouldn't communicate with her on the phone. I forced her to use text messages. I picked up $35 software that pulled the texts and voicemails. Ended up being great documentation that allowed me to protect myself against her false attacks.

She'd actually threaten me with doing it via texts 1st before actually doing it if I didn't go along with what she wanted. So it was pretty easy to defuse.


Me: 45 W43
S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce)
D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.