Boy, do we ever get to do something about the infamous phone call? have you ever confronted your H about it. Why cant they at least respect our feelings? Its so disgusting when they can ML to us and still answer those phone calls? (Ok, I know this disgusting part contradicts my stand on ML!) Okay, whatever. Does you H also call her when he is with you? Maybe we need to think of somehting to convey to them that we are not comfortable about this?
My H never call me when she is with him , whcih is most of the time except for working hours and the time hw spent with me. Other than that, I cant even call him. I've tried a few times, either he wont answer, he answered but on purpose acted as if the line was bad and couldnt hear me or talked to me in a very harsh way and quickly got off the phone (he used to do this). Its really an insult and dont know if I can take it anymore. Acted as if but has been going on for far too long, no change in pattern.
Take care deb, check with you again later.
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