Hey focus22. I don't know if you are getting your exercise but it has helped me tremendously by getting me out of the house and burning off some energy. I try to work out tree days a week and run a couple of days and take yoga two days. The weather is making it tough to do anything outside so I guess I will have to start using the treadmill. Probably better to go to the gym anyway as there will be other people there. Getting in shape is part of rebuilding our lives and looking and feeling good will help with both DB and with making us feel better about ourselves. Gets me a little attention from the ladies and I'm sure the guys will notice you getting in shape. You can punish your husband by looking great as well and I am certain that there was a time when he thought you were the prettiest girl in the world. Get back to that girl and you are on your way to happiness!
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.
