in house S (4)

[sandi2]

I cant believe you agree with me on this not finishing what she starts. Its feels good to be validated.

I am not going to do the work she asked me to do, and I will wait,

I hope you mean you will not wait, as a means of avoiding conflict.

I will remember what to say because she will surly mention it to me.

If this should happen again, you should approach her face to face and state your boundary.

I feel very disrespected when you talk to me yell at methat way from another room, telling me what to do.
I agree that things need to get done but if you ask order me that way, I will not help.
If you want me to help please ask me respectfully and I will do what I can to help. (Does this include her unfinished work?)
What I wont help with is your unfinished work.
If you continue to ask tell me to finish your work I will pile it up on the bed you sleep in.

Be certain that you don't make statements you can't adhere to. Always think it through. Don't be quick to do things that appear childish or vindictive. She may not, but let's say you did dump her stuff in her bed....What if she does something worse to you as a result? What if you just left the stuff where she put it? Would that work, or not? I'm just suggesting.