KTFO: I was in the same boat. at the beginning I thought I had all of the issues and it was somehow my fault. I've realized that isn't the case. I don't know your situation but my WW needs me to be the bad guy and she wants to blame me, but I have too much life ahead of me and too many positive things to focus on to let her drag me down to the pit she is living in.
sounds like you are on the right path for sure. Rise above the negative stuff and live the life you want to live. My motto once I saw that light was "you are a victim of the rules you live by" and im going to make my own rules, I won't let my WW make them.
Thanks man, basically my issue was she took me for granted, I do too much for people especially her and she took me for granted as I was more a warm blanket and supporter. She had an EA then went to meet a guy in NC under the gise of her running a marathon. Well just found out really i September but full ahead over aweek or so ago.
I know to a man, I've done everything I can for 15 years.. anyways, I realize this now. She has the issue not me, she wants me but hasn't proven anything and not shown me any thing. I think she's incapable of showing me anything and I believe it will be the reason we end up D. I love her tremendously, but there was no excuse for this I'm a selfless giving man or maybe that's why.
Anyways, you give us lost souls hope! So as I ride this road to self repair I know there is a light at the end of the tunnel and it will be a lifetime journey. Her loss!
