Saw this in the "there is a light" thread and MAN it's great to see this! When you're drudging through this mess to hear something like this and reaffirm what I'm thinking and that he found success is awesome!
"The moment you stop letting your spouse dictate your emotions, your thoughts, and your actions you will start to power through this storm of your life. I can't emphasize enough that it isn't easy, and im by no means fully recovered and skipping through life. You control your happiness, not your spouse. "
