Hey Sandi,

I cant believe you agree with me on this not finishing what she starts. Its feels good to be validated.

I will have to re read this to try to remember all this. I am not going to do the work she asked me to do, and I will wait,. I will remember what to say because she will surly mention it to me.


I feel very disrespected when you talk to me that way.
I agree that things need to get done but if you ask me that way, I will not help.
If you want me to help please ask me respectfully and I will do what I can to help.
What I wont help with is your unfinished work.
If you continue to ask me to finish your work I will pile it up on the bed you sleep in.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016