Not sure what else to say at this point. My life is pretty much falling apart personally and professionally. My wife is in love with another man, refuses to stop contact with him and I expect to sell our home and file for divorce in Spring of 2016. To make matters worse, the boss at the new job I started a few months ago (Roughly when I got the ILYINILWY speech) surprised me by saying he wasn't happy with my performance over the past few months and considered initiating a formal performance improvement process with HR until he learned about the divorce. I'm lucky my employer is understanding of the situation, but I was taken by surprise since nobody ever mentioned any concerns until yesterday. So now I not only need to worry about my broken family and how to deal with the holidays and my pending divorce but I also need to figure out how to turn everything around at work and change the perception that I'm not delivering.
I guess you could say that things could only get better because I'm pretty much at rock bottom and if they get worse, I'll probably break.
M: Late 30s W:Late 30s S: 4 D:2
Known: 19 Together:8 Married:5
ILYINILWY: 8/2015 EA: Confirmed 9/2015, Started 8/2015? PA: No evidence, W Denies D: Planned for Spring 2016
