So I texted H back. I have not spoken to him since his mini meltdown.

Me: Hey. Sorry I was tied up yesterday. How are you feeling today? You are doing great. You got yourself a full time job and a great apartment. Be proud.

Ok, so my apology was worded innocent, but not wink
That'll get his mind pondering a tiny bit.
Then I tried to applaud.

Now back to my own life.

Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!