She wore the necklace you gave her on her wedding day? WHAT!? I am a woman, and I can tell you with 90% certainty that she put on that necklace on purpose to get a response from you.
My suggestion, Don't read anything into it. Even though I spit my coffee out when I read it, dont YOU read anything into it. There are a million reasons why she put that necklace on, and you would be mind reading to guess.
The second thing is you have to stay above her craziness when she talks. Keep telling yourself to not believe ANYTHING she says. She told you how great her life is now (she had to pinch herself) to get a response from you.
How many people do you know have a great time going through a divorce? Unless someone was getting abused or drugs, a divorce is painful for everyone.
She is going through her own pain. She definitely does not want you to know this.
I see many positives when I look at how things might be leaning. Just focus on the baby steps, like her last text out of the blue. That is definitely a positive. It is a baby step that you are heading in the right direction.
It is like a very overweight person. Imagine your M as a person who weighs 700 lbs. Even doctors wont do things like stapling a tummy on a 700 lb person. That person has to go a few months with a consistent small weight loss to prove to the doc they are really changing their lifestyle.
If the person only loses 10 pounds in a month, does that mean failure? Heck no! Yes, we prefer a larger amount of progress, but any progress, consistently shown, is great work.
90 minute conversation, inviting you in for a while at the swap, and a text message out of the blue. Just keep moving forward with your life, don't believe a word she says and be proud of what you have accomplished so far.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
