In Vise's sit is it possible this is a step the WW may have to go through on the way back to the LBS? She thought for so long she needed to be away from him and now realizes she is missing something and now she is conflicted. She thinks ok, i dont want to be with H anymore so I need to go find affection somewhere else. Then she realizes this is not making her happy and she starts looking back more?
It seems to me, after reading many, many threads on here that the WW has to really hit rock bottom before they consider returning, if they even do. As Sandi said, they have to see that you really don't GAS what they think or do and move on with your life. Not saying that will happen and his may never return, but why would she if she has her cake?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.