Pho, please allow me to jump in. I want to thank you for your question to me. It has also opened to my eyes in a way I didn't think about. I am not sure there is anything I can do about my situation, but your question really got me to thinking. And that's a good thing!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
