so much hurt and anger

[peacetoday]

Many attorneys give free consultations..just so you know your legal rights
You don't have to pay nor do you file…just get information..it helps to know just in case

It is difficult in the start of this..so glad your sister is there and can help and also IC is great
The main things are
to take care of yourself…get rest..eat..sleep relax breath exercise whatever you can do to lighten the load and still
Be there for the boys

When they go IN MLC they change also and your H is transitioning out of military so he has some big changes
they are not the same
the crises takes over..they may spend time with us then hate us again,,
the MLC is associated with their OWN unresolved childhood..not anything we did or didn't do
It may be true that there were issues in M just as in all M but still they run from their own stuff inside them not from Us..they project it on us
There is nothing that can be done for him as it is his stuff
but you can use this time to heal and grow to parent your kids
and on the other side most LBS (like US) wind up fine
trust the process and let H do what he needs
you focus on you and kids