It is important to know why you are still standing. You have answered that several times in your thread but as you rightly pointed out you are now at a different point of your path.

Even without knowing exactly if you believe it is the right thing to do, maybe that is enough.

Good luck with your thinking.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together