Thanks Sotto. I like it. I'll wait for the opportunity when we say goodbye if opportunity arises. Probably it will come up in general conversation making it difficult to walk away! At the moment we haven't separated any of our finances or formalized anything about house, cars etc. We said we'd trust each other to leave the small amount of money there for our son. It has only been a month so I think it is too early. I don't want to move the process along, leave door open etc. the right thing?
