I realized I was so wound up yesterday I didn't mention this, but think i'll just vent a little here. Part of the reason (but not a good excuse!) I had such a knee jerk response to H's e-mail about taking S to religion class was that I had literally just come from a Dr.s appt., turned on my email and sat down when h's email popped up. At the DR appt, I found out I have to go in next week to have MORE testing done for STD's....I was pretty blown away, and his timing w/his email was p--s poor. Havent said anything to him about having to go back for additional tests, don't think I will unless they're +, but needless to say, my patience level w/all his crap took a huge nose dive. Especially since I know for a fact that's been a major "tryst time" for them. In fact, I'm still pretty po'd when I think about it. maybe I'll send all the bills to the OW.