Thank you for helping me
1) No I have not because he is giving me child support just not spousal. Like I said he is angry at me

2) Not to my knowledge and he was tested for tbi before he got out. As for PTSD I believe he has it but it has not been diagnosed.

3) He had an emotional affair with a schoolmate before we left CA and reached out to his old gf but she is married and could care less about him. Here in Tx I have no clue.

4)He says I always mistreated him but I think that is him projecting his anger at his parents.
Background. Mother had him at 14..Dad was 24. He was controlling and abusive to her and she was nasty to him.

I am I must say at ease because I am no longer walking on eggshells. Do I miss him? Of course but he needs to heal and so do I. I am fortunate that my sister lives nearby . It helps with the boys and honestly it helps me not focus too much on him