I never knew that a person could be more of a crazymaker than me! Learn to talk to yourself to walk yourself through stressful situations. This is what I do. learn to think b4 you speak. Walk away when you fell annoyed to gather your thoughts and you may realize it is not even worth mentioning. He said she would always be there. Well, guess what i wouldn't let that statement bother me(easier said than done). That is just to make him feel that she has this super unconditional love for him. You show him that unconditional love is with you. One of the things you can do to help show him is STOP mentioning OW. Trust him. don't blame him. Don't bring up the past. FORGIVE him for his indescretions. I use to hold things over my H's head and had to learn that when we love uncondionally and forgive we should not continue to bring up the past. I know it is hard. I am just learning to take my own advice because I am such a crazy maker!
