Just got back from lawyers, Not sure how I am feeling right now. I signed the family valuation papers These lead to a separation agreement I only signed them for financial reasons. I do not agree with the Date of Separation DOS. Yes that date is significant to me. Cause the day H wrote was the day he left saying he was just going to "stay at cottage for a few days" but on these legal papers it states that the DOS is the day when there is absolutely no possibility of reconciliation. I still believe there is - that is what was preventing me from signing the papers. I feel like I have been pressured to sign them because H was withholding money so to ensure he pays his share I have to compromise my morals. So anyway - they are signed and I really don't know if I am feeling numb or lighter or maybe I'm just exhausted cause I couldn't sleep last night.
