Hi lovely, I'm just dropping in for a pep talk. Hey, I'm sorry to hear you've been feeling down. I think we all have inevitable ups and downs, and I do think you have been doing so well. Has there been anything in particular that has led to your drop in mood my friend?
Interesting that your W thinks you've been seeing someone for four months - that's a very specific timeframe. Did you meet the lady doctor around that time - although not have a night out until recently? I'm guessing she may have heard about the date perhaps?
It does sound like more of the same from your W, RD. I do think she seems to get stuck in a loop and struggles to move herself forwards. She doesn't seem to see that she has options, that she is responsible for her own future life and happiness - as are we all. This was the theme at our divorce recovery workshop tonight incidentally. When we S and D, we get 'custody' of ourselves as a given. How are we going to live the best lives possible, given all circumstances?
So, what about your future life and happiness RD. What does that look like to you my friend? Clearly your W isn't central in that just now (in the longer term who knows?) But what nice plans are you making just for you? What would put a smile on lovely RD's face again - apart from all the ladies fighting over you on your thread that is.
Keep posting and working through it. We are all your friends and are here to help. I"ve never forgotten that you sat and had a glass of wine with me the night I got divorce papers. That meant a lot to me and I'll always appreciate it. I have tears in my eyes as I post.
take care xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
