Hello Enigma,

I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.

Don't be so hard on yourself. You have been doing great! Not responding right away to her New Year's Eve question was spot on. Ask yourself this, would you like to spend the time with S2? If so, do it for S2 and yourself. You could even plan your own special countdown before bedtime with sparkling apple cider. Were you wanting an adult night out with friends to enjoy GAL activities? If so, stick with that plan. The point is that the choice is YOURS!

You are entering uncharted waters by having to meet her in person to transition S2. It had to happen eventually.

Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.

Cristy
Resource Coordinator
The Divorce Busting Center
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