I think anyone that knows me or works with or has any thing do with me will tell you I'm one of the nicest, most selfless, people you'll ever meet. I'm also a giant dumb#ss for dealing with this! LOL hahah.. sorry, had to laugh. I'm also very very very self depricating! lol if you can't laugh at yourself then how can you laugh lol
I have been told many times that I am a nice guy. I always avoided conflict in marriage, out of fear I guess. Funny thing, when we were dating, I was very much a nice guy but had a little *sshole edge to me. Just a little. It took me a lot of reflecting to see how being so nice in the marriage was probably one of the things that led to our problems now.
I totally understand the laughing at yourself part! I do the same.
The thing to remember is, while last guys do tend to finish last, those who win always win big.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
