here i am for a second time around - new name. first time on here was for part a of my sitch. part b started once the A was discovered.
my homework from cadet is done. redone. i follow sandis words through any thread i can and maintain the 37 rules. they are hard to follow but they are db and sandi reinforces their value. ive read through many many sitchs hoping id run into something similar. i have ran into a few but my question here is how to db once filing is in place.
i filed - regret having filed. thanks emotions. i feel nc was creating more of a rift than it was helping so i maintain a dim approach to keep me in Ss mind. im not certain its the way to go but we all fall and pick ourselves back up from time to time don't we?
anyone out there willing to share their approach and results?
since S 1m: no knowledge of db = failure 2m: read dr + start db + failing some 2.5m: A discovered + freakout = rereading dr 3m: more db + failing a little less 3.5m: filing + failing + db + dark 4.5m: here and now + dim
