Pho's thread- solving problems

[JulieH]

Hi pho.

I'm also horrible at housework...would much rather work,and lose patience with my sensory seeking son. We are human!

Another thing in common, I think husband was too angry for therapy as well. I would leave crying and he felt great at getting to complain about me and our relationship.

If you don't mind sharing, were there things you did before BD that you wished you did differently? Do you feel any guilt about how you were with husband in past? I am asking you this because am coming to some realizations about myself.... I am putting up with a lot now to atone for some of my bad behaviors earlier on. (Will post about later)